HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF SQUIRT
Some women squirt or ejaculate naturally while masturbating or having sex with a partner. Others need more attention on their g-spot and have to learn how to do it.
Massaging the G-spot causes it to swell with fluid, which is then squirted out during orgasm. As you do this, it might feel as if you have to pee, don’t worry, just as in a male orgasm, your body prevents you from urinating. A light salty fluid comes out instead.
Preparing for Female Ejaculation
To make yourself feel comfortable, lay down a thick towel to absorb the moisture or practice in the bath tub. You will need a dildo or g-spot toy design to help you massage your g-spot.
It might help to do a simple visualization exercise first. Imagine yourself masturbating, and then enjoying yourself pushing out your warm sweet ejaculate. See and feel yourself feeling positive and free as you do it!
It is also a great idea to have a mirror handy so you can get a view of your vagina; it is wonderful to have this option so you can see how your body is working and what is going on down there.
Tip: Make sure you are hydrated by drinking a glass of water 1/2 hour before hand. This will help you produce more ejaculate.
Female Masturbation Techniques for Squirting
Your g-spot slowly fills with fluid as you get more and more turned on. Warm up is essential to get your g-spot stimulated and swollen, so start with some basic masturbation on your pussy and clit. Use as much lube as you like on your toys and pussy.
Using a vibrator on your clit for a few minutes is also a great to get yourself hot. And remember your orgasmic breath to deepen the sensations.
Bring Yourself to the Edge of Squirting
Now that you are really hot. Use your toy to massage your g-spot. It is located a few inches inside your vagina on the front wall. It feels slightly rough and bumpy.
Play around with different strokes to learn what you like best. Try slow circles and direct firm pressure. Now close your eyes and focus on the sensations.
As you get closer and closer, you will feel as if you are about to pee. This is great. Keep going and feel them build as you are ready to burst.
Letting Yourself Ejaculate
*When you feel as if you can’t hold it any longer, pull your dildo out and push out with your PC muscles to ejaculate.
- Your PC (pubococcygeus) muscles are the muscles in your vagina that you would use if you wanted to stop the flow of urine. Getting to know these muscles is essential because they are the muscles that will help you push the ejaculatory fluid out once your G-spot has filled. You can play with tensing and releasing them (and you are safe, since you already peed before you began), try putting your finger in one knuckle at a time and tightening around it. This will give you a feel for how strong, weak, or tense your muscles are and this may help you when you are troubleshooting what is and is not working around your process.
Once you feel your G-spot is full, you can begin tightening the PC muscles. Play around, tighten and release… notice how this adds or diminishes the sensations in your vagina. Keep stimulating the spot as you experiment with your muscles. You may also want to massage or vibrate your clitoris, this will intensify the urge to orgasm, which may help you release the fluid.
It is important just to let go and allow yourself to spray. Just watch yourself from a distance and notice the feelings (you might release some fear or shame when this happens). And just let them go.
If you don’t squirt right away. Put your dildo back in and keep going to building the sensations again. Bring yourself to squirting again and push out again with your PC muscles.
Eventually, you will feel the rush of a squirting orgasm and it will all blend together naturally. Just keep practicing. Don’t be discouraged if you have not ejaculated, be gentle, have fun, don’t try too hard!